Thursday, July 23, 2009

Live Your Life

Live every moment like its gonna be your last :) why? you never know what happens to you later, i'm not being pessimistic , but i'm being realistic . You could have everything planned in your head now, or on paper,or in the technology filled world, saved in your laptop.. but could you bet your life that it would work out the exact same way you planned later? My point here is, take it easy, and most importantly.. breathe. Ofcourse, you could,or should always plan ahead, but worrying about whether it will work, that, to me.. its a waste of time, and brain space..We could,or rather we SHOULD use that precious time to enjoy every single millisecond , every single minute, hour, day, and so on.. because at the end of the day, we can't guarantee that we'll wake up the next day, only to find ourselves snoozing our alarm clocks for another 10 more minutes of extra sleep:) come on, i know its a daily scene in the mornings for most of us..the rest of you snooze your alarm clocks for 20 minutes :P

Enjoy, even if you have a big math test in 5 minutes, take a chill pill yo ;) you can't change the fact that you will be taking the test in a while, nor can you turn back time, face it. So, just do it. Be done with it. If you think you didn't do well, then prepare for it earlier the next time round :)
Again, why waste that golden time frowning and cursing under your breath, when you could do something else , like.. smile, or make another friend's day by telling them whatever I just tried to convey to you above ? :P And hopefully, by the time you finish doing that, it'll be time for you to sit for the test. Relax, is the word .

Live life to the fullest, cos you never know, you just never know .. :)

Monday, July 13, 2009

Cup'a love,anyone?

Feeling like I've just cracked the code of the Aztecs, a whole gush of feelings came rushing into me, and thats when I felt, and learnt something I always thought I understood these past years. But the truth is, no. The old-easily-taken-for-granted phrase, 'One day, we will all find true love' is very misleading indeed..and not many of us give much thought to it. This thought will eventually cross our minds at some point, but don't we wonder when is that 'one day' and what is meant by that 'true love' everyone keeps talking about? Ofcourse, every individual is entitled to their own opinion, so let me just share mine with you :)

True love? Most of us just push those two words away,thinking it has always got something to do with life partners, boyfriends, girlfriends etc..this is obviously the reaction of someone who has experienced a bitter breakup (or several bitter breakups) or someone who just..wants to be the "unique", "odd" one out, for being rather synical yet attractive in their own way. Here's a thing, true love doesn't always have to be linked to a lover now, does it? It can relive in the form of love towards parents, pets, siblings, anything.. but most importantly, towards yourself.

Love yourself, and that is what true love actually means. If you love yourself, even if you THINK (and usually,this comes from what others judge you to be) you're fat, skinny, have a broad nose, or a wide forehead, then my pal, you've found true love:) Think 'bout it, why would anyone have a reason to love you, when you yourself, living it that body, can't accept yourself for who you are? My point is, this kinda love (sorry, i got tired of the word true love:P) can be found within yourself. Try sticking this on your wall , "I've found true love in loving myself". I'm pretty sure you'll feel damn good bout yourself later !

And that one day I mentioned earlier, will come when you do find this treasure. As for me, I found mine after glueing my eyes on the TV screen, with the thought of 7 add. math sums left to do at the back of my mind, watching Penelope. But, hey, it was worth it, wasn't it?

Cheers !:)